I had to learn that. See, when it comes to hairstyles, I like to experiment. Sometimes I like it super short. Sometimes I prefer a bob. Other times I want it super long. It just depends on how I feel. Now, notice I said it depends on how "I FEEL", not anyone else. So, please explain to me why I have people coming to me telling ME how I should wear MY hair? If I get it long, group A has something to say. If I get it short, group B has something to say. No matter what way I chose, there would always be a group that wasn't particularly pleased. Something as trivial as hair made me realize how IMPOSSIBLE it is to please everyone, and if you try to please everybody, you're setting yourself up for failure. No matter what you do or how hard you try, there will ALWAYS be someone out there with something to say. Point, blank, AND the period!
You have to do what makes you happy. If it's something that truly makes you happy ,why wouldn't you do it? Yeah, some people may not like it but are you willing to be miserable JUST to please someone else? Oh no, no! I don't know about you, but I'm not! And you have to pay attention to those who express their so called "displeasure". Because it's not always displeasure, sometimes it's just a little shade. You ever had somebody say they didn't like something you did, wore, or whatever, but you turn around and they have something or are doing something ridiculously similar or the same? Wait, I thought you didn't like it?! So you're like oh, you disliked it so much you decided that you would try it. Yeah, I can see that. No, not really.
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| You think Miley Cyrus didn't know what people would say when she made this drastic change? You think she cared? She liked it, and that was all that mattered. |
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| I don't even need to explain. This guy lives his life with no regards as to what people have to say about him. |
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| C-Breezy and Rihanna do what makes them happy and could care less about who has something to say. |



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